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Lecture 4

LK
by Linus K.

The five EI-Components (Extended: Characteristics & Skill Indicators)

  1. What is self-awareness (Knowing your emotions)?

    Knowing your own feelings and your own character and your self-concept. Being aware of your own ego and dealing with criticism.

    Also having an idea of how you are perceived by others (Important because it’s the only way to influence others/for having successful negotiations. Standing in the shoes of others

    Process where the individual understands itself

    Characteristics:

    -Ability to have a self-depreciating sense of humor. Making yourself smaller is sympathetic

    -Confidence: Playing your strengths

    Skill indicators:

    -Knowing when you’re thinking negative (Being in a bad mood but not letting others know)

    -Knowing when you’re thinking aggressively

    -Knowing when you’re thinking defensively (You need to think forward (negotiations))

    -Knowing when you’re thinking naively (Carelessly trusting everybody)



  2. Self-regulation (Managing your emotions) (Think before you act - Think around the corner and about the consequences)

    -> (Signs: Capacity to find your emotional perspective and to downsize your impulses. Thoughtfulness and integrity)

    Consequence of ability to control your emotions/impulses:

    -Creating an atmosphere of fairness and trust

    Skill indicators:

    -Ability to identify shifts in your emotional thinking

    -Ability to be productive even if you’re thinking negatively

    -Ability to be productive even if you’re in a psychological X


  1. Motivation (Motivating yourself)

    Characteristics:

    -Passion for the work

    -Desire to raise the bar/frontier

    -Commitment and Optimism (Going the extra-mile (Transformational Leadership & Leading by example))

    Skill indicator:

    -Ability to regroup from a set-back (Never quit, Regroup from a push-back)


  1. Empathy (Recognising and understanding other people’s emotions) - Ability to read between the lines & understanding other people’s current emotional state

    -Understanding the emotional make-up

    -Being aware of other people’s feelings and helping them to articulate them

    -An atmosphere of transparency, trust and productivity (Also Authentic Leadership) (Servant Leadership)

    -Skill to deal with group dynamics (Build cohesion)

    Downside of empathy:

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    Three areas where leaders need empathy?

    1. Teamwork (Help members for collaboration & Understanding multi-cultural teams)

    2. Global business (Globalization with different (company-) cultures

    3. HR-/Talent management

    Empathetic leaders increase satisfaction

    Empathetic leaders decrease employee turnover


  1. Social skills (Managing relationships)

    Characteristics:

    -Ability to persuade others

    -Ability to increase corporation in a team

    Skill indicators:

    -Ability to build consensus/commitment in the team

    -Ability to establish trust

    -Ability to work out/solve conflicts in a sustainable/constructive way (Skills approach - Solving problems)

    -Ability to mediate between conflict parties


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Linus K.

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